OP: Sorry for your loss. But still thank you for sharing it with us.
I would like to say a few things on this regard.
I cannot comment on train mishaps since i hardly travel in one.
I am an avid biker and i do not support racing in streets.
Speed does increase the risk of an accident and the line between riding/driving fast and rash is very very small. Usually riding/driving fast may invariably lead to riding rash due to unavoidable circumstance.
Also i would request everyone here to kindly wear atleast a helmet whenever you are riding anywhere, be it to the next street market or a long ride. As someone said riding slow or riding to a nearby place does not guarantee you a safe ride. There are always other morons around who share the same road with you and cannot read your mind about this fact.
And kindly avoid talking on phone while riding/driving. I can understand if the local illetrate fools do not follow any of this but recently the trend in riding in cities has become very worse.
I am currently working in bangalore. Here majority of people have little to no road sense. Everyone is impatient and seeing motorcycles riding on the footpath is more common than seeing people walking on them here. Many of us who are educated and crib about our politicians etc. do not even think twice before taking a call while riding/driving. If us so-called educated people cannot follow simple rules there is no point in even attempting to change the attitude of the whole nation, majority of whom cannot even spell education.
A couple of days back while riding to a friends place, i saw a guy wearing proper formals and wearing a laptop back riding on an activa and talking on a cell phone with his left hand. He was hardly aware of the road and almost hit me and another car next to him while doing so. So i went beside him and requested him to not talk on phone while riding. He immedietly blew his top and started abusing me in kannada (which i do not know) and as usual started saying the line that all us indians are very used to say in an confrontation. I told him it was for his own safety and safety of others as well in english and he now started to abuse me in some crap broken english. I Thought that there was no use in arguing here and simply moved to the other side of the road and started riding. The worst part was the guy in the car who was almost hit by the activa and the other people on bikes following us started laughing at me.
The reason i am bringing this up is to show how ignorant we are about safety measures and how the comman man’s mentality is in this case.
However in past i have advised people the same and some have actually smiled and promptly hung up on the call.
One needs to understand that the road is not yours alone because you had paid the road tax and is shared by all.
That being said, it would be totally farce if i said the people walking on the road are always right. In my years of riding, i have seen so many people jaywalking on the road.
They see you coming at long and try to hurry up, suddenly realise that he cannot make it and try to go back and then suddenly again realises that it will be better to keep going again since the oncoming vehicle has changed its direction as well to avoid hitting him.
How many of us have taken the subway or the overhead bridge to cross the road. We instead try to jump the griding in the middle of the road instead of taking them. We think other people are fools to do that not realising we are the fools actually trying it. Once we do accomplish that we get a false pride of accomplishing somthing supremly impossible.
Well sorry for the rant but hopefully atleast one of you who has read this, stops using cell phone while riding/driving and starts wearing helmet.
Peace!