got some work around working on it still have small bug will post results in some time
Got the work around folks. I am happy that i was able to upload contacts to the mobile ,it was a lil bit tedious task but had to google a lot .No wonder google is the best search engine

.Alright here is the entire guide.( I guess i can post it in guides @ tutorials)
My issues was i had more than 500 contacts in .vcf format stored in my system ,couldn sync coz of my stupid phone settings.
1) please follow the below link and do the steps as mentioned
Importing .vcf files to windows
After goin thru the link i had ran into many issues as follows
1) I could not add the.vcf files to windows contacts as i did not have option to add/edit/import contacts toolbar in the windows contacts folder,here is what i did to get the toolbar click on organize-->properties -->customize--->customize now select the drop down menu for use this folder template as contacts and click on ok that is when the toolbar in windows contacts appears.
2) Now another issue was that i could not upload the contacts from windows contacts folder to the windows live mail coz the app which is used ( Windows live contact importer ) has a bug every time it tried to upload gives a error message saying
Internet connection lost please try later ,now again i got pi$$ed off but google again came to resuce ,its a known issue in the tool there was no resolution at all ,our own member "alsiladka" had issues and he had posted the same on wakoopa.Here is the link to his post
Issue on Windows live contacts importer
To work around this issue had remembered ^bitsandpeices PM where in he asked me to create a .csv file using outlook but it was a tedious process.But tried creating the same from Windows Contacts export menu and later logged in to mail.live.com and imported the .csv file and followed the same process mentioned in the link which i have posted the above.
Sorry for the mistakes i have made .Posted here so that it will be helpful to others
@mods please do let me know if i can post it in guides and tutorials ,do i have to make any changes??