As i already told you earlier.
go for amd 1055t + gigabyte 890 ud3h = 17400 (2weeks old price)
corsair 1333, 4gb x 2 = 6800 (2weeks old price) (if you got the budget then go for 16gigs like i did as ram prices are quite good atm) (i suggest to get this board as it has a nice layout and cooling setup which will help as the system is usually going to be under stress most of the time)
noctua u12p se = 3700
gfx card not sure, but i suggest to go for nvidia for your requirement so if you can get a gtx 460 in your budget then go for that.
i am already using these setups (minus the gfx cards) as you already know.
why would you want to spend more money on a 1090t or 1100t without buying a good 3rd party cooler to really push these cpu's.