This small thing is such a big impact item. I absolutely hate it when I have to launch the fire TV app, then wait for it to detect the fire TV devices, then select the only one that I have, then wait for it to connect and then finally be able to press the centre button. All this coz I want to pause the video.
I know exactly what you are saying.
Might as well not have the phone remote at all when one has to go through so many hoops.
Most geeks however discard such seemingly small niceties when they do a “feature to feature”comparison and hence my guarded comment

In fact every single India forum post on streamers recommends shield - which I could never quite understand - esp given the local price
till it hit me that it offers more such so called features!
something similar with chromecast that I noticed.
One rarely uses screencast - but you still want it work when you do want to use it.
With android and CC, it’s quite often hit/miss and requires the CC or phone (or both) to be restarted
eventually you just don’t use it any more
i have both apple tv and nvidia shield pro. i got shield pro just because it is supposed to run plex server. that plex sever never runs properly and i gave up debugging it.
i have dolby vision tv and the picture quality is way better with apple tv compared to shield. shield’s picture quality always looks like over saturated and a bit washed out.
Shield always crashes mid movie when watching 4k content. the picture goes cosmic microwave background and i have to restart tv. doesn’t happen with apple tv.
cant comment on atmos because i have 5.1 system only. i think i will order the new one because i want to play some apple arcade games now. also i hate the remote and end up using my phone all the time.
btw, my friend uses apple tv for all of his subscriptions. he has every subscription i could imagine.
so its not only me then.
I have also felt that the ATV yields a better PQ.
Its too much work to do a back to back comparison so I haven’t really bothered but your comment does validate my offhand observation
Edit: One caveat on the bug free experience.
This holds true for all apps I use except hotstar..
For some reason, the hotstar app has a hard time keeping watched time stamps in sync / accurate
Also, it does freeze once in a while and requires an app restart