Disgusting stuff

[Nikhil]

I have a couple of friends studying in an economics college in Madras(the famous one).

The college is within the Anna University campus. There is some construction work going on and that obviously means some construction workers living in the area.

Yesterday, while one girl was talking on the phone, 3 men literally pounced on her. One made some comment and another grabbed her hand and started pulling her. She luckily managed to get away. She didnt report this to any senior people or anyone because she was too shocked and embarassed about it.

Today, another girl was climbing the stairs to the auditorium and three guys had a camera with them and were taking pics of her.

This is how disgusting college campuses have become in our country. Both girls dont want their names dragged in and so are keeping quiet. They plan on writing an anonymous letter to the concerned people(YEAH RIGHT!! Like that's going to help).

The girls are afraid that if they complain, then the cheap B****** will target them and try to do something worse.

Also, the senior members of the college are known to be ultra-conservative types. They are the "girls should not wear jeans and hang out with boys" type. Many of the students feel that even if they complain, they will get a reply like "Maybe you were wearing something inappropriate or doing something inappropriate" .

This is so pathetic, it makes my blood boil. I mean, these are young college students. Mostly 22 -24 years of age! They have no security within their own college?!?!

I have a few friends there and I know I can trust their judgement when they say that the girls are very decent and DO NOT indulge in hanky panky of any sort.

 

[Bluffmaster]

There is always strength in numbers. Why don't the boys of that college take the responsibility to deal with such maniacs ? Surely there must be some Student council or something. Hell even if a few girls of that college unite and confront those idiots they would be sh1t scared to try anything again. This is the problem with us Indians, we compromise on everything. These girls are not complaining about harassment due to the fear of embarrassment and it would be too late when they are finally raped one day. An eye for an eye is the only solution to survive in today's world.

 

[Aces170]

The usual stuff across almost all cities, moreso in the northern part of India. Women are treated as mere objects, and it will take more then a generation to change people's belief. What I find baffling, is the incidence of sexual harassment is much higher in conservative societies then liberal ones. At least one point I agree with the "Sharia law" sexual offenders should be lynched to death in public, no two ways about it. You have to set an example somewhere...

 

[Gannu]

These incidents seem to be pretty common. Retards. Should be beaten up left right center. :|

 

[HailStonE]

Here is a suggestion for girls to do for this....

YouTube - B school sledging

 

[forum67]

You can't break a man the way you break a dog...or a horse. The harder you beat a man, the taller he stands. To break a man's will, to break his spirit, you have to break his mind. --- jackal farcry 2

Beating is no good for such ppl . Make there face black with gobar and give them a donkey ride on the street of madras in there undies.

 

[DanDroiD]

The easiest thing they can do is always make sure they travel in groups so that they can protect one another. A number of years ago there were a number of rape cases in and around the Berkley area... maybe a little more severe than what you are talking about but the point is the police recommended that girls always traveled in groups of 2 or more.

(BTW..... they eventually caught the rapist)

 

[chiron]

I really don't like the "construction workers" generalization. A major chunk of my interaction the past 3 years has been with people who would fall into that category and I have found them to be much easier to deal with than my "middle class" acquaintances during that time.

Regardless, it is sad when these kind of incidents take place.

 

[Lord Nemesis]

Many of the students feel that even if they complain, they will get a reply like "Maybe you were wearing something inappropriate or doing something inappropriate".

While I believe in the freedom and liberty for women to wear what they want, there is at least partial truth in the above statement. There is nothing wrong in girls wearing Jeans, but there are many girls who do not understand the difference between fashion and obscenity. They dress in a revealing manner in order to stand out and attract attention and then regret it when they get more attention than they bargained for. The worse part is that sometimes even innocent girls have to bear the long term consequences of their actions as in this case probably.

Back when humans were still living like any other animals, they did not wear clothes or were scantily clothed. The dress sense of many a girl is now going back in that animalistic direction. but in this process, they are also forcing awake the sleeping animal instincts in their opposite sex. Its almost like girls want to tease men as they choose with their way of dressing, but don't want them to respond to that. I strongly believe that this is a major factor for the increase of such incidents. There is no smoke without a fire.

I have seen many an example of this here in Chandigarh. Just a couple of months back, while walking back home one day, I saw a couple of college boys walking towards me from the opposite direction and making comments and taking snaps of a girl with a mobile and they quickly walked past me when they noticed me. But the thing is that they were not walking behind her with the intent of teasing, but rather in front at a distance and they were turning back to take snaps. A quick glance at the girl that walked past me a moment later told me the reason for their behavior. The girl probably lives somewhere near my colony as I had seen her before in our area. She is about 20 years old, and the thing was that she was wearing very revealing clothing (not to mention a fair amount of make up too...Probably going to a party or something). She had a short skirt that fell just above her knees and an almost transparent top and it was pretty visible that she had no undie inside her top. That's why they were taking snaps of her. She dared to dress like that and then had the nerve to get agitated when her attire claimed those boys attention. I had half a mind to drag her back to her house or talk to her at least, because the way she was dressed, she was looking for trouble, but then I thought its none of my business since her own parents allowed her to go out like that.

 

[Amarbir]

While I believe in the freedom and liberty for women to wear what they want, there is at least partial truth in the above statement. There is nothing wrong in girls wearing Jeans, but there are many girls who do not understand the difference between fashion and obscenity. They dress in a revealing manner in order to stand out and attract attention and then regret it when they get more attention than they bargained for. The worse part is that sometimes even innocent girls have to bear the long term consequences of their actions as in this case probably.

Back when humans were still living like any other animals, they did not wear clothes or were scantily clothed. The dress sense of many a girl is now going back in that animalistic direction. but in this process, they are also forcing awake the sleeping animal instincts in their opposite sex. Its almost like girls want to tease men as they choose with their way of dressing, but don't want them to respond to that. I strongly believe that this is a major factor for the increase of such incidents. There is no smoke without a fire.

I have seen many an example of this here in Chandigarh. Just a couple of months back, while walking back home one day, I saw a couple of college boys walking towards me from the opposite direction and making comments and taking snaps of a girl with a mobile and they quickly walked past me when they noticed me. But the thing is that they were not walking behind her with the intent of teasing, but rather in front at a distance and they were turning back to take snaps. A quick glance at the girl that walked past me a moment later told me the reason for their behavior. The girl probably lives somewhere near my colony as I had seen her before in our area. She is about 20 years old, and the thing was that she was wearing very revealing clothing (not to mention a fair amount of make up too...Probably going to a party or something). She had a short skirt that fell just above her knees and an almost transparent top and it was pretty visible that she had no undie inside her top. That's why they were taking snaps of her. She dared to dress like that and then had the nerve to get agitated when her attire claimed those boys attention. I had half a mind to drag her back to her house or talk to her at least, because the way she was dressed, she was looking for trouble, but then I thought its none of my business since her own parents allowed her to go out like that.

Buddy ,

No undie under her top :tongue: ,Well Since When Have girls started Wearing undies There Too hyeah: .Anyways you were very enthusiastic to ask her and she lived nearby .Well Well Having Attraction to the opposite sex is ok but the behaviour of the boys was not .Anyways good nothing great happened .

 

[fractal]

At least one point I agree with the "Sharia law" sexual offenders should be lynched to death in public, no two ways about it. You have to set an example somewhere...

In practice, the offenders go free while the victims get punished for adultery like Aisha Ibrahim

No, our existing laws are adequate for such offences but they need to be enforced.

 

[Lord Nemesis]

Buddy ,

No undie under her top :tongue: ,Well Since When Have girls started Wearing undies There Too hyeah: .Anyways you were very enthusiastic to ask her and she lived nearby .Well Well Having Attraction to the opposite sex is ok but the behaviour of the boys was not .Anyways good nothing great happened .

Undie's refer to any sort of Inner Wear. Also I have not asked her where she lived, I just said she must be leaving somewhere near my colony as I have noticed her couple of times before that incident.

As for your last statement, I agree that their behavior was inappropriate, but the entire incident could have been avoided had the girl just been fashionably dressed rather than obscenely dressed.

 

[blr_p]

What I find baffling, is the incidence of sexual harassment is much higher in conservative societies then liberal ones. At least one point I agree with the "Sharia law" sexual offenders should be lynched to death in public, no two ways about it.

Ultra-conservative means more hypocrites, does not matter which country.

So in more ultra societies offenders do much more hence the draconian laws. Course this does nothing to alleviate the problem.

I think the west has it right here, their women are free and don't face a fraction of the problems that happen in this country.

Are we more perverted than them ?

It's high time we dropped all this Victorian bullshi!

 

[Amarbir]

Undie's refer to any sort of Inner Wear. Also I have not asked her where she lived, I just said she must be leaving somewhere near my colony as I have noticed her couple of times before that incident.

As for your last statement, I agree that their behavior was inappropriate, but the entire incident could have been avoided had the girl just been fashionably dressed rather than obscenely dressed.

Well ,

The First Comments By Me Were Specially For Teasing You hyeah: "Well Mates Before Anyone of You start Pounding On Me ,I And Ajay Are Good Very Good Friends So This Was a Little Teaser :rofl:" .Well do find where she lives ok .

 

[TheNightwing]

There is always strength in numbers. Why don't the boys of that college take the responsibility to deal with such maniacs ? Surely there must be some Student council or something. Hell even if a few girls of that college unite and confront those idiots they would be sh1t scared to try anything again. This is the problem with us Indians, we compromise on everything. These girls are not complaining about harassment due to the fear of embarrassment and it would be too late when they are finally raped one day. An eye for an eye is the only solution to survive in today's world.

Because nobody wants to be the first. Nobody wants to be the hero. Chivalry is dead and survival is all that matters.

I tried fighting for the safety of a girl once only to find that the 'boys' behind me whom I called friends had run off and were nowhere to be seen.3 against one wasnt exactly a fair fight but atleast I took two of the b****ds with me to the hospital.

Nobody fights for somebody else's war. Girls have to realize that and be brave enough to face the situation.

Heroes are very few and far apart.

 

[blr_p]

Buddy ,
No undie under her top :tongue: ,Well Since When Have girls started Wearing undies There Too hyeah: .Anyways you were very enthusiastic to ask her and she lived nearby .Well Well Having Attraction to the opposite sex is ok but the behaviour of the boys was not .Anyways good nothing great happened .

hehe, i think he means she was wearing a 'string'.

Good on her, she knows how to dress :hap2:

I see too many women here wearing tight, thin pants and forgetting the outlines that stick out *yuck* and this is for work.

 

[chiron]

@nemesis

Personally, I don't care how any other person dresses or acts as long as it doesn't invade on my personal space(depending on what the situation may be); its obviously not up to me to dictate.

Also, imo you are really underestimating the male libido if you think it has anything to do with the way a woman dresses.

 

[rishabh.asthana]

Back when humans were still living like any other animals, they did not wear clothes or were scantily clothed. The dress sense of many a girl is now going back in that animalistic direction. but in this process, they are also forcing awake the sleeping animal instincts in their opposite sex.

WTF are ya talking about bro...so you wanna say all girls should wear salwar and kurta ??? better still they should do a full pardha or wear hijab ??? Its the sexual frustration of Indian males that is to be blamed...here men can do anything they want but if we see a girl smoking or drinking or wearing modern clothes we start to behave as if she's a slut...we need to change our-self before blaming a girl's CLOTHING
ps:i am very disappointed by your views

 

[Lord Nemesis]

Personally, I don't care how any other person dresses or acts as long as it doesn't invade on my personal space(depending on what the situation may be); its obviously not up to me to dictate.

Well, even I don't care how they dress, but I do get irritated when some of these girls act as if they are being victimized when people as much as stare at them. Such girls obviously dress in that fashion to be 'sexually attractive' rather than just being attractive, so why do they fear the consequences of their own actions. Worse still, sometimes even innocent girls have to face the brunt of their actions.

Its like throwing a hunk of meat before a lion that has been forced to feed on grass and then expecting that it will restrain itself from eating the meat.

Also, imo you are really underestimating the male libido if you think it has anything to do with the way a woman dresses.

Agreed, but still dressing obscenely at least acts as a catalyst.

WTF are ya talking about bro...so you wanna say all girls should wear salwar and kurta ??? better still they should do a full pardha or wear hijab ??? Its the sexual frustration of Indian males that is to be blamed...here men can do anything they want but if we see a girl smoking or drinking or wearing modern clothes we start to behave as if she's a slut...we need to change our-self before blaming a girl's CLOTHING

You obviously haven't read my post properly. As I said, there is a difference between being dressed fashionably and being dressed obscenely. Girls are free to dress either way, and I don't really care even if they go out in birthday suits. But the fact is that even men will gather attention depending on the way they dress. Try going out to college/office in a Baniyan and Knickers that barely cover the thigh's and you will surely gather attention and ridicule from people. Its the same thing. Girls should understand that not every male will keep suppressing his base animal instincts when they are themselves providing the stimulus. Different People have different levels of control over these instincts. Some obviously don't have any and others break down under varying levels of stimulus. You can't put your head in a Lions month and expect that it will not bite it off just because its tamed.

 

[Dinesh_Malhotra]

While I believe in the freedom and liberty for women to wear what they want, there is at least partial truth in the above statement. There is nothing wrong in girls wearing Jeans, but there are many girls who do not understand the difference between fashion and obscenity. They dress in a revealing manner in order to stand out and attract attention and then regret it when they get more attention than they bargained for. The worse part is that sometimes even innocent girls have to bear the long term consequences of their actions as in this case probably.

Back when humans were still living like any other animals, they did not wear clothes or were scantily clothed. The dress sense of many a girl is now going back in that animalistic direction. but in this process, they are also forcing awake the sleeping animal instincts in their opposite sex. Its almost like girls want to tease men as they choose with their way of dressing, but don't want them to respond to that. I strongly believe that this is a major factor for the increase of such incidents. There is no smoke without a fire.

I have seen many an example of this here in Chandigarh. Just a couple of months back, while walking back home one day, I saw a couple of college boys walking towards me from the opposite direction and making comments and taking snaps of a girl with a mobile and they quickly walked past me when they noticed me. But the thing is that they were not walking behind her with the intent of teasing, but rather in front at a distance and they were turning back to take snaps. A quick glance at the girl that walked past me a moment later told me the reason for their behavior. The girl probably lives somewhere near my colony as I had seen her before in our area. She is about 20 years old, and the thing was that she was wearing very revealing clothing (not to mention a fair amount of make up too...Probably going to a party or something). She had a short skirt that fell just above her knees and an almost transparent top and it was pretty visible that she had no undie inside her top. That's why they were taking snaps of her. She dared to dress like that and then had the nerve to get agitated when her attire claimed those boys attention. I had half a mind to drag her back to her house or talk to her at least, because the way she was dressed, she was looking for trouble, but then I thought its none of my business since her own parents allowed her to go out like that.

are you a member of Ram SENE ??

just kiddin ...

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let us not again play the same game of blaming women and their way of wearing their clothes, in justification of

the heinous activities a man does to satisfy his fraked up Sexual urges !!

its a liberal world, an individual be it a man or a woman should have equal rites to do as he/she wishes until it does not break any law enforced

in a country.

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we are also loosin out on the whole motto of the thread.

the OP wants some Help/solution... not our discussions.

NO offense bro