vpraveenis
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Do Indian women have a deludedly high opinion of themselves? Or lack of exposure?
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GuruGulabKhatri said:
LOL Is that how you define a chauvinist? I call a chic a chic and do ti with utmost respect. none of the women i've met have ever taken offence since the way you say it makes all the difference!
:lol: at the shame on you part! they should cleary have your picture beside the phrase "jumping the gun" in the dictionaries.
Anyway, lets not get into the whole women respect thing and the Indian double standards associated with it. "oh we indians respect "ladies" so we lock them up at homes."
No they dont. Thats just money.Bluffmaster said:
sid_donnydarko
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GuruGulabKhatri said:OMFG , Really? Then I am So Not Getting Married
@OP Now That u feel Better after ranting so Much about your (schoolmate too,u said?) date in a public forum..Why don't U give her a Call and be nice?
If I know anything about women,They just want us to be nice and Caring..and not pretentious
So when u called urself a geek,She smirked...coz knew like ggt sir here...u,with all due respect are not a geek
So the Smirk was for u being pretentious..Not for being a non-geek (guess she was totally fine with it)
She sent me a message letting me know that my sex-appeal lies in my attitude and the way i generally carry myself!
I was a bit surprised by this but i took it at face-value.
Party Monger said:Lol at most of the replies. To those who ask for the thread to be trashed, there are many such threads, and they were awesome fun, leave the threads judging part to the Mods.
Now for the OP:-
1) You came across as a nice but lame guy. Now im not judging you but the only thing that matters in this case is how you came across to her.
2) When you sat listening to her, you lost your ground. Never ever let a woman dominate a conversation.
3) The Geek part. Its not wrong to be a geek. But never ever show off an unbalanced personality.
Women traditionally have very less interest in technology, so stick only to the parts where you can make her go wow and those will be something like "hey check out my iphone" And not something like "OMFG i overclocked my cpu to 4ghz, im so winning that pendrive in the competition." I would judge her if she didnt yawn on your face for that
She doesn bother you with her make-up fetish does she? Then why would you want to do that to her with your tech fetish?
4)The car part. She smirked eh? Thats cause she had already established her self as superior while you patiently heard her. It was something like "I knew it, loser!". When she asked you about a car, a smart reply was due. And when she smirked, a polite ass kicking was due, you should have brought her ass back down to earth saying , why dont you show me around in your ferrari and then on seeing her car told her that the way you smirked i thought you owned a ferrari, most fat chics i know own a(name of the car). " That would have severely deflated her.
5) The more you kiss her ass the harder she'l trample you.
6) And about complaining to her about that smirk! You might as well have cried over her shoulder! Who does that! Never let them know that it hurts, or that what she said got to you! Should have kicked her in the shins for smirking!
Lastly, when a chic acts smart, give it back to her politely . Let her know she cant walk all over you. Mostly making fun of her can shatter that cock-iness.
And one more thing, if she labels you a geek, call her a bimbo. Nothing beats the living daylights out of them. Once i was talking to my friend about a mobile phone and this chic was there with us and i was speaking for 10 minutes and then she say, "i never you were such a boring geek", i told her " I never knew you were a bimbo who wouldnt understand an intelligent conversation"
Its ok to be nervous, but never show it!
Dude...
Chicks who put up with a guy who thinks they're tough around them have self-image issues.
Chicks i usually hang out with would break their 5 inch heels off a tough guys ass without getting into a sweat.
Plus i have a deep, prominent, voice that people are not used too. I can sound extremely sarcastic even when i utter a line as simple as "you're late" or "i'll see you around". So i tend to hold back a bit
The ones i go out with only hang around me because i seem like the most "real" guy according to them. It probably has something to do with me always making it a point to mind my own business.vpraveenis said:
Dear OP
1) Get over yourself. You are not a geek if you have to shout it out to the world and to a girl. Get over yourself.
2) Refer point 1.
3) Unless you plan on marrying this girl, or she has some deep yet unclear bearing on your future, I find a smirk to be no reason to bang your head on the GT wall.
4) Relax, you are going too hard on yourself. Refer point 1.
5) Forget TE, you are not proving anything to anybody in this world. Call the girl right now and start being a bit less 'geeky'.
6) Refer point 1.
Enjoy!
1) Get over yourself. You are not a geek if you have to shout it out to the world and to a girl. Get over yourself.
2) Refer point 1.
3) Unless you plan on marrying this girl, or she has some deep yet unclear bearing on your future, I find a smirk to be no reason to bang your head on the GT wall.
4) Relax, you are going too hard on yourself. Refer point 1.
5) Forget TE, you are not proving anything to anybody in this world. Call the girl right now and start being a bit less 'geeky'.
6) Refer point 1.
Enjoy!
sid_donnydarko
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Sarcasm Apartasingh said:@OP:
Not fair. You did not tell us all the details completely in the initial post. SMS/deep voice/sex appeal quote. Our replies would have been drastically different...!
Buy a car.
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Again i'm not bragging. For someone who's only 165cms tall, my deep voice is very misplaced. A lot of people have told me this, again.
After we parted ways, i sent her a text letting her know that i had a wonderful time and that we should try a movie sometime later. She replied positively in the same fashion and liked the movie idea. The next day i sent her a text letting her know that the secret to her sex-appeal was in her bubbly nature(and how gorgeous she looked the previous day) and she replied letting me know that mine was in my attitude. There that's everything
I'd choose to save up money for a full-fledged IvyBridge, 12 Gig, SLI'd GTX580, 5TB Adaptec RAID-6 HDD array, 30" U3011 based system all packed into an Corsair 800D, over a car any given day .. any darn day! :cool2:
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Fellow Geeks & Nerds!phoenix844884 said:
I am NOT venting myself by posting this thread. Please! Please! Just tell me from your experience if you've experienced what i've been through!
chiron
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sid_donnydarko said:She sent me a message letting me know that my sex-appeal lies in my attitude and the way i generally carry myself!
I was a bit surprised by this but i took it at face-value.
Dude...
Chicks who put up with a guy who thinks they're tough around them have self-image issues.
Chicks i usually hang out with would break their 5 inch heels off a tough guys ass without getting into a sweat.
Plus i have a deep, prominent, voice that people are not used too. I can sound extremely sarcastic even when i utter a line as simple as "you're late" or "i'll see you around". So i tend to hold back a bit
The ones i go out with only hang around me because i seem like the most "real" guy according to them. It probably has something to do with me always making it a point to mind my own business.
Stop trying to explain things by making generalizations like "tough" guy and "real" guy etc and forget about what all you talked about in the phone before.
Bottomline is; you blew it with the girl by making a snarky comment about her smirking(which was a really ungentlemanly thing to do regardless of who was in the wrong). Plus, I'm sure you acted equally desperate while in the parlour too which had already soured her. And as pointed out by many the stench of desperation trumps everything(money, looks, attitude, common interests etc).
Don't feel too bad... at least you got to go on a date with some girl for once, unlike me for instance
and you might even get another chance with her provided her self esteem is low enough.sid_donnydarko
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Ummm....let me clarify things....chiron said:Stop trying to explain things by making generalizations like "tough" guy and "real" guy etc.
Bottomline is; you blew it with the girl by bringing up her smirking (which was a really ungentlemanly thing to do regardless of who was in the wrong). Plus, I'm sure you acted equally desperate while in the parlour too which had already soured her. And as pointed out by many the stench of desperation trumps everything(money, looks, attitude, common interests etc).
Don't feel too bad... at least you got to go on a date with some girl for once, unlike me for instance
She asked me out in the first place. When she did, i told her i would get back to her on friday which i did with a venue and time. At the parlour i told her she looked gorgeous and she liked it.
I never voiced out that i disliked her smirk. I simply chose not to hug her as tight as she did.
In the past, all my previous dates have been with docile women
I was surprised at her level of openess and she looked adorable when she laughs! She was a first for me 
Party Monger
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LOL at all the boasting and covering up. Why are you even here?sid_donnydarko said:She sent me a message letting me know that my sex-appeal lies in my attitude and the way i generally carry myself!
I was a bit surprised by this but i took it at face-value.
LOL and you missed that detail in the OP?
FYI no chic does that! Please dont make a fool of yourself here!
Dude...
Chicks who put up with a guy who thinks they're tough around them have self-image issues.
Chicks i usually hang out with would break their 5 inch heels off a tough guys ass without getting into a sweat.
Plus i have a deep, prominent, voice that people are not used too. I can sound extremely sarcastic even when i utter a line as simple as "you're late" or "i'll see you around". So i tend to hold back a bit
No one asked you to be tough, be assertive is what i said. Taking crap lying down wont get you a chic.
The ones i go out with only hang around me because i seem like the most "real" guy according to them. It probably has something to do with me always making it a point to mind my own business.
Some criticism and you are down to defending your self with fake shit. No girl will ever tell you all that shit and if she does, you better not believe it.
sid_donnydarko
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Party Monger said:
Party Monger said:
Dude...
I swear on my mom she sent me a text with those lines. If this doesn't convince all of you then i don't know what will! :S
Party Monger said:
You've misunderstood me. And how can someone who's 165cms tall act like a tough guy? It may work in Africa, but i'm not into Pygmies.
I can't even risk acting assertive because of my prominent voice. Left out "deep" so that you don't blow up again.
Dude...TBH...you have more chances of getting laid than i do. And you know why? Its because i'm the "SAFE" guy. We safe guys never get laid!
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You get a hard-on when you see women in sexy outfits? Shame on you! :bleh:Saiyan said:I can answer your query, but first a riddle :-
What piece of women’s attire,
most stokes a man’s desire?
Bluffmaster
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@OP : Ok, seriously, get the fcuk over yourself already. :| Seems to me that your only motive behind creating this thread was for us to acknowledge how "cool" you are and in turn making you feel better about yourself. You are one of those people who need other people's approval in order for them to believe in something. And just what is it are you trying to prove by stressing the point that SHE asked YOU out in just about every post of yours?
I would have gladly tried to help you out had this been an honest query/discussion but over the many replies you have posted here, it is clear to me that you are Self obsessed, have a superiority complex and all you need is to get a life and a "real" girlfriend!
P.S : Also, please stop making shit up, you are embarrassing yourself. Had you dated before/ever you wouldn't have created such kind of a thread in the first place.
I would have gladly tried to help you out had this been an honest query/discussion but over the many replies you have posted here, it is clear to me that you are Self obsessed, have a superiority complex and all you need is to get a life and a "real" girlfriend!
P.S : Also, please stop making shit up, you are embarrassing yourself. Had you dated before/ever you wouldn't have created such kind of a thread in the first place.
sid_donnydarko
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Dude...take a chill pill!Bluffmaster said:
You're the one with the ego issue since you can't believe another guy even when he swears on his mom!
Self-Obsessed? Superiority Complex? Who made you resident TE psychiatrist?
Try to be a little more level-headed and broad-minded!
P.S. I only mentioned the details because asingh asked me to sarcastically...
asingh said:@OP:
Not fair. You did not tell us all the details completely in the initial post. SMS/deep voice/sex appeal quote. Our replies would have been drastically different...!
Buy a car.
See the wonders...!
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of traffic.
Make it a point to read the entire thread before letting your ego get the better of you!
sabby
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Buddy, you think too much. I understand that you are proud to be a geek. But you don't have to prove it anywhere. Just act normal and honest, that usually helps to express your real character
Going by your posts, your friend indeed seems to be desperate to be in search of a stable person to be with and you too like her a bit if I am not wrong. If you want to be with that/a women, you need to convert the awkward/irritating moments into laughter instead of digging them deep. Trust me, there will be many
Going by your posts, your friend indeed seems to be desperate to be in search of a stable person to be with and you too like her a bit if I am not wrong. If you want to be with that/a women, you need to convert the awkward/irritating moments into laughter instead of digging them deep. Trust me, there will be many
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