Do Indian women have a deludedly high opinion of themselves? Or lack of exposure?

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EVENTS THAT LEAD TO CREATION OF THIS THREAD:
U fell for a bubbly girl - spoke about u being a GEEK - blew ur chances as she did not give u "bhav" - so ur ego is hurt ergo the thread to feed ur ego...

Stop messing around here man... As party monger said no girl will talk to you about ur sex appeal... And if u really sent her a msg of her sex appeal u just lost her friendship inspite of her relpy which i think did not really happen...

Let this thread continue and u will have people destroying ur ego here... For ur own sake and benefit close this thread and get ur self a girl irrespective of the fact she things u are less of a man because ur are a GEEK...
 
sid_donnydarko said:
Dude...

I swear on my mom she sent me a text with those lines. If this doesn't convince all of you then i don't know what will! :S

You've misunderstood me. And how can someone who's 165cms tall act like a tough guy? It may work in Africa, but i'm not into Pygmies.

I can't even risk acting assertive because of my prominent voice. Left out "deep" so that you don't blow up again.

Dude...TBH...you have more chances of getting laid than i do. And you know why? Its because i'm the "SAFE" guy. We safe guys never get laid! :(
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I'l leave the rest, except for the last part. I dont go around beating chics, be it a b**ch or a nice chic, i dont think i've ever offended any of them with what i say. So im relatively safe :P
 
sabby said:
Buddy, you think too much. I understand that you are proud to be a geek. But you don't have to prove it anywhere. Just act normal and honest, that usually helps to express your real character :)

Going by your posts, your friend indeed seems to be desperate to be in search of a stable person to be with and you too like her a bit if I am not wrong. If you want to be with that/a women, you need to convert the awkward/irritating moments into laughter instead of digging them deep. Trust me, there will be many :)
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Yeah, maybe i'm taking things way too seriously!
The main reason being that she and myself have too many common friends; you never know what kinda stories she might make up behind my back if i screw it up with her! :(
 
Do Indian women have a deludedly high opinion of themselves? Or lack of exposure?
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If that wasn't a rhetorical question, the answer to both the questions is NO. Now close the freakin thread already.
 
lida said:
EVENTS THAT LEAD TO CREATION OF THIS THREAD:

U fell for a bubbly girl - spoke about u being a GEEK - blew ur chances as she did not give u "bhav" - so ur ego is hurt ergo the thread to feed ur ego...

Stop messing around here man... As party monger said no girl will talk to you about ur sex appeal... And if u really sent her a msg of her sex appeal u just lost her friendship inspite of her relpy which i think did not really happen...

Let this thread continue and u will have people destroying ur ego here... For ur own sake and benefit close this thread and get ur self a girl irrespective of the fact she things u are less of a man because ur are a GEEK...
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Dude...unlike what bluffmaster said i am not making up shit! :)

I just swore on my mom! You mean to tell me, that you lie and cover it up by swearing on your mom? :S

She sent me a reply after i sent her one. She has not mentioned the word "sex-appeal" unlike i did in my previous message. All she said was "and urs is the way you carry urself and speak :)"

That's it. Sue me if you'd like cos i didn't mention that she never entered the word "sex-appeal", but i'm telling you guys the truth!
 
How do you close a thread?

So much for being effin honest! :S

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kippu said:
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Screenies? seriously? Whatever happened to a man's word?

I come here looking for advice and everything blows up in my face because of a few sensitive ego's!!! Yeeeessshhh!

Any guesses why Bluffmaster calls himself that? :facepalm:

P.S. since my honesty is being questioned - i don't have the messages since i deleted them. Plus we went to the newly opened "Cream and Fudge Factory" on KNK road.
 
Pics or it never happened. :P Also, we give a damn about your messages and your ice cream. Sheesh are you really 26?

Originally Posted by sid_donnydarko over many many silly posts.

Ok. I'm 26 and i've reached that point in my life where i stop being a bloody judgemental pr**k and try to be as tolerant as i possibly can.

But she also forgot that her voice was getting a lot louder as she spoke and this was attracting attention from all around.

Even though she didn't say it, i could make out she had judged me when she smirked at my answer.

But that smirk had already done its damage and when she gave me a tight hug, i let her know that i was least impressed.

What i want to know is if women in our country, at around my age, have an incredibly high opinion of themselves?

When we were talking over a call, i was surprised she asked me out even after i hinted that i was the geeky sort.

Compared to the previous 2 women she was the nicer one. I couldn't understand why she asked me out in the first place when she wasn't comfortable around geeks?

In the situation i was in, i let her know i was unhappy after she smirked.

She did mention on a number of occassions that she wanted to get married soon and about my looks.

I've been told(note lack of self-reference) on many occasions that i carry myself very well and sound like someone who's jumped a few years ahead.

She sent me a message letting me know that my sex-appeal lies in my attitude and the way i generally carry myself!

Chicks i usually hang out with would break their 5 inch heels off a tough guys ass without getting into a sweat.

Plus i have a deep, prominent, voice that people are not used too. I can sound extremely sarcastic even when i utter a line as simple as "you're late" or "i'll see you around".

The ones i go out with only hang around me because i seem like the most "real" guy according to them.

She asked me out in the first place

In the past, all my previous dates have been with docile women
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And you say I have ego issues. *Sigh*

And please tell me you did not just say "I Swear on my Mom" to defend yourself on a public forum. Look dude, I did not mean to offend you. I have nothing personal against you, just that I think your ideology is completely flawed. You asked us for our opinions and when we gave it to you, you started bashing the ones you did not like. Seemed pretty obvious to me that you were not seeking opinions but approval. I realize I did get a bit rude but that was only because I cannot stand pretentious behavior, I am sorry. :)
 
Bluffmaster said:
Pics or it didn't happen. :P

And you say I have ego issues. *Sigh*
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From where i stand, this post of yours proves that you're more interested in the authenticity of my claims. Only 3 or 4 members have so far pointed that out. I hope you realize this. What happened to the rest? The answer is simple :- a) they're simply not interested in my thread; b) they're just not as paranoid as yourself

I pointed out you have ego issues because you made up some warped out conclusion about my intentions. I found it creepy let alone weird!

And before you say anything to harm this girl's integrity. I DID NOT SLEEP WITH HER.

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Pics or it didn't happen. :P
And you say I have ego issues. *Sigh*

And please tell me you did not just say "I Swear on my Mom" to defend yourself on a public forum. Look dude, I did not mean to offend you. I have nothing personal against you, just that I think your ideology is completely flawed. You asked us for our opinions and when we gave it to you, you started bashing the ones you did not like. Seemed pretty obvious to me that you were not seeking opinions but approval. I realize I did get a bit rude but that was only because I cannot stand pretentious behavior, I am sorry. :)
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How else do i prove that i'm telling the truth? I don't have the messages either. I'm not bashing anyone. I was only defending myself against posts by members who felt that my thread had no value and zero basis.

I created this thread hoping that i'd get some constructive opinions from some of the more regular members on TE. I swear these were my only intentions. My choice of words in the MP would not have been appropriate but i did change them to let others know that i'm open to suggestions regarding the subject in question; not about my ability to carry on with the opposite sex. I'm not here to create issues dude :) Can you tell me how to close the thread please?
 
dude i will give u one more piece of advice... If u are man with any self respect NEVER swear on ur mom... It just shows how vunerable u are...and just for ur info when i lie rarely also u will never know that i did and if i lie i dont bring my mom into the picture like a sissy boy... Thats wht u are...
And wht with all the word of a man crap.... Its a standard rule on fourums npnt (no picture no talk) and one more if no pic it never happened...
 
lida said:
dude i will give u one more piece of advice... If u are man with any self respect NEVER swear on ur mom... It just shows how vunerable u are...and just for ur info when i lie rarely also u will never know that i did and if i lie i dont bring my mom into the picture like a sissy boy... Thats wht u are...

And wht with all the word of a man crap.... Its a standard rule on fourums npnt (no picture no talk) and one more if no pic it never happened...
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Its a public forum. And i'm not regular at that too. Had i known the situation would turn out this way i would never post stuff like this. Lesson learnt.

I can't have any member question me about "how far i've gone" with this girl.

I'm sorry if i've offended anyone in the process. Again, like my previous posts my apologies are also sincere.

Someone please tell me how to close a thread?

P.S. Before anyone else points out, i'm not closing this thread because i've been caught lying either!
 
Wrote previous post when i was angry with something u said in one of ur posts so please ignore...
OP please accept my sincere apologies and forgive if I have offened you in any way...

Just to be clear, I have never asked u about "how how far u have gone with this girl"...

To close the thread u must request one of the mods to do so... U yourself cannot close it... so just send a pm to syian or renegade or any other mod to close the thread and the needful will be done...
 
How else do i prove that i'm telling the truth? I don't have the messages either. I'm not bashing anyone. I was only defending myself against posts by members who felt that my thread had no value and zero basis.
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You don't have to prove anything to anyone. No matter what anyone says, what you do with your personal life is strictly your business. And if you think about it, your thread indeed has no real value. Probably the reason why everyone got worked up was the way you potrayed women in your first post. It was degrading. And I am not wrong when I say that you weren;t really asking for opinions but rather seeking approval.

I created this thread hoping that i'd get some constructive opinions from some of the more regular members on TE. I swear these were my only intentions. My choice of words in the MP would not have been appropriate but i did change them to let others know that i'm open to suggestions regarding the subject in question; not about my ability to carry on with the opposite sex. I'm not here to create issues dude :) Can you tell me how to close the thread please?
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Well, you were wrong I guess. Had you constructed your post in a more polite and respectful manner, you may have probably gotten some constructive and honest opinions but with each new post of yours, you came of as a snob and reeked of self obsession. Again I am sorry for offending you, and I wish you best of luck but I hope you have learned something from this.

If you love/like someone, don't you ever ask others for their opinions about her/him because noone can be a better judge than you. The sooner you realize this, the better off you will be. :) About closing the thread, you can report your thread requesting the mods to close it or send a personal message to a mod requesting him to close it.
 
lida said:
Wrote previous post when i was angry with something u said in one of ur posts so please ignore...

OP please accept my sincere apologies and forgive if I have offened you in any way...

Just to be clear, I have never asked u about your intentions on "how how far u have gone with this girl"...

To close the thread u must request one of the mods to do so... U urself cannot close it... so just send a pm to syian or renegade or any other mod to close the thread and the needful will be done...
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Dude....

I did not try to insinuate anything in your direction. I was speaking/typing in general.

All you've done is point out that i'm a liar. Even Bluffmaster has not said anything in similar context so far.

And i'm pretty sure no one would go that far :) I don't think anyone is that mean.

Bluffmaster gave me a shock when he came to this conclusion, which i feel he typed out in a hurry

The reason why i mentioned that sentence is to let everyone know that this is where i'm drawing the line.

Bluffmaster said:
@OP : Ok, seriously, get the fcuk over yourself already. :| Seems to me that your only motive behind creating this thread was for us to acknowledge how "cool" you are and in turn making you feel better about yourself. You are one of those people who need other people's approval in order for them to believe in something. And just what is it are you trying to prove by stressing the point that SHE asked YOU out in just about every post of yours?

I would have gladly tried to help you out had this been an honest query/discussion but over the many replies you have posted here, it is clear to me that you are Self obsessed, have a superiority complex and all you need is to get a life and a "real" girlfriend!

P.S : Also, please stop making shit up, you are embarrassing yourself. Had you dated before/ever you wouldn't have created such kind of a thread in the first place.
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If any of the mods read this, then please close the thread :)
 
^I may have gone a little overboard there. Thats what happens when you are pissed off and have nothing better to kill your time with. I apologize not for what I said but for the manner in which I said.
 
Bluffmaster said:
You don't have to prove anything to anyone. No matter what anyone says, what you do with your personal life is strictly your business. And if you think about it, your thread indeed has no real value. Probably the reason why everyone got worked up was the way you potrayed women in your first post. It was degrading. And I am not wrong when I say that you weren;t really asking for opinions but rather seeking approval.
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Just went through my MP. Apart from the words "deludedly" and "wise-ass", i really don't understand what else degrades the oppsoite sex. I was called a lesser man because i was comfortable being called a geek - Try picturing yourself in my shoes and maybe then you'd understand.

Bluffmaster said:
Well, you were wrong I guess. Had you constructed your post in a more polite and respectful manner, you may have probably gotten some constructive and honest opinions but with each new post of yours, you came of as a snob and reeked of self obsession. Again I am sorry for offending you, and I wish you best of luck but I hope you have learned something from this.

If you love/like someone, don't you ever ask others for their opinions about her/him because noone can be a better judge than you. The sooner you realize this, the better off you will be. :) About closing the thread, you can report your thread requesting the mods to close it or send a personal message to a mod requesting him to close it.
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I think you're confusing my bluntness with self-obsessiveness and snobbish attitude. To prove this, i prefer being a "humble" geek. There i said it.

I am one of those people who don't take pride in the negative context. Maybe this will help you understand that my intentions were constructive and not self-obsessed.
 
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