easiest country to move to?

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^^ actually thats not quite true, my bro there works for RBS and makes 14000 dirhams( which is around 1,60,000 PM here )

yep, hes just a b.com!
 
Shripad said:
If an opportunity comes by, then its fine, go move. But dont give up on your life here thinking you need to find something better somewhere else, or you will end up being unhappy and sorry here and if you go out somewhere for the sake of moving, you will be unhappy and sorry there. Its your choice in the end, but be realistic.
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Another way of putting this is make sure the BIGGEST reason to move is other than to run away from here.

You don't live in a warzone ;)
 
^^ actually its not, i make more than enough to live comfortably here..

the root cause is, i just cant turn a blind eye to whatever happens and i feel depressed cos i cant do anything about it.
don't go saying that we can change all this, it will take time..cos deep down we all know it wont change!

Even i was very patriotic, but u can't ignore reality!!
@shripad - i have talked to many guys who go abroad, its not an overnight desicion!! infact a friend of mine suggested that he would help me out with stay in singapore..i don't want his help.
 
salluks said:
the root cause is, i just cant turn a blind eye to whatever happens and i feel depressed cos i cant do anything about it.
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Can you expand on this ?

..and why you think it does not exist elsewhere.
 
salluks said:
^^ actually its not, i make more than enough to live comfortably here..

the root cause is, i just cant turn a blind eye to whatever happens and i feel depressed cos i cant do anything about it.
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I feel the same way(not since ages but like since last 2-3 years, a bit of change in myself) and I'm still thinking about it. Their was a time when I thought about moving somewhere else plus lots of other options I considered till date. but I lack that confidence / being afraid of not fulfilling personal responsibilities.

If you think that you can be happy moving abroad then go ahead give it a try. I say it's not running away(and you have to feel it). If some years down the line you would still feel you have to do something for others then you might be able to do it better. Just do what you want to do if you are not constrained anywhere :)

PS - It never hurts to take the help of your friends.
 
salluks said:
^^ actually thats not quite true, my bro there works for RBS and makes 14000 dirhams( which is around 1,60,000 PM here )

yep, hes just a b.com!
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And your point is? :huh:

When did he move to the UAE? Certainly not in the last 2 years.
How much does he save? 5k max?
I know a few guys working in middle management at banks in India and they earn more than that.
 
^^again i say, its not about the money, really dont care,
thats was an answer to leets post who happens to think b.com's are worthless.

anyway this thread is gone wayy off topic, which will not serve any purpose, so back to my intended question???
 
Shripad said:
Dude seriously. You have fairyland ideas of rest of the world. Its not the case. I have seen my share of countries, have friends and close relatives, brother living in other developed countries, and trust me, things can be really frustrating there.

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If an opportunity comes by, then its fine, go move. But dont give up on your life here thinking you need to find something better somewhere else, or you will end up being unhappy and sorry here and if you go out somewhere for the sake of moving, you will be unhappy and sorry there. Its your choice in the end, but be realistic.
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I usually dont agree with funky but he is spot on here, I couldnt have put it better myself. Like he says, If an opportunity for going abroad arises then you should certainly take it, but thinking of fleeing the country just cos you are frustrated with it will do you no good. Once you get out of India, you start realising what you are missing. You might make shitloads of money but you live the life of a servant, doing all your stuff, laundry, washing and all that BS. The word "Shopping" for me now usually means grocery shopping.

I can empathise with you, I felt the same way about India and wanted to run away as fast as I could from there. But once you are out of India, you realise what a PITA it is just to survive. Even if you earn loads of money you cant find the comforts that you find back home.

So, IF you have the opportunity to move abroad and make money go ahead and help yourself but if you dont have the opportunity, no need to get all negative and cry about it. Your time will come, no need to be desperate :).
 
Darthcoder said:
I usually dont agree with funky but he is spot on here, I couldnt have put it better myself. Like he says, If an opportunity for going abroad arises then you should certainly take it, but thinking of fleeing the country just cos you are frustrated with it will do you no good. Once you get out of India, you start realising what you are missing. You might make shitloads of money but you live the life of a servant, doing all your stuff, laundry, washing and all that BS. The word "Shopping" for me now usually means grocery shopping.

I can empathise with you, I felt the same way about India and wanted to run away as fast as I could from there. But once you are out of India, you realise what a PITA it is just to survive. Even if you earn loads of money you cant find the comforts that you find back home.

So, IF you have the opportunity to move abroad and make money go ahead and help yourself but if you dont have the opportunity, no need to get all negative and cry about it. Your time will come, no need to be desperate :).
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amn why cant u guys grasp a simple concept??

for the last time. its not about the money bro!

there are things which i guess u'll not understand....

am talking about the "depressed and not able to do anything feeling"...

its not about being comfortable either...i should be mad to go out of india if i have to consider how life would be easy!!

anyway., since this topic is going nowhere, ill stop and do my search elsewhere!

gforce said:
^^ Washing and wringing your own clothes is good for an arm workout. ;)
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with all do respect, u come across as a very immature guy :(
 
You sound like a relative of mine who said the exact same thing to me - "India main rehne ka mun nahi hota". It's depressing to watch all the poor and the filth around us everyday. Though i find your idea of shifting to another country as ridiculous as that relative of mine.
 
salluks said:
with all do respect, u come across as a very immature guy :(
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Gosh, some guys can't even detect humor from a centimeter away. :(

With all due respect, you seem to have never experienced hardships in life. Go wash two dozen clothes and post your experience after that. FYI, I'm not talking about dumping clothes in the washer but rather the old fashioned way of cleaning clothes.

Not only that, after reading through posts, it's very clear that you're treating the moving abroad thingy as a shot in the dark without really working out the nitty gritties. You might as well put a finger on a rotating globe and move to whatever country comes up.
 
broadway said:
Though i find your idea of shifting to another country as ridiculous as that relative of mine.
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Kinda difficult to figiure out... Lets see

anyway, am sick and tired of our dear country and wanna move out..
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dude, generations have passed and nothing has changed,
my mom had to make her birth certificate, so we had gone to the school she studied in..
she said that other than the people there nothing has changed even after 35 yrs..
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if i cant do anything about it like 99% of us,
i might as well do something good for myself.
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but believe it or not its depressing living here!
yesterday i saw our area MLA come in a new Mercedes ml550, when the drain down the road has been leaking for 8 god damn years!(and he got 3 crores just to clean drain in our area)

quite frankly ive run out of hope/patience/tolerance..and theres nothing anyone can do about it rather than talk about it on a public forum!
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whats the point of living here if theres no basic courtesy towards another human?
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and worse of all, cos of my conservative attitude, i dont get much action either...a prisoner of my own forsaken mind
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am talking about the "depressed and not able to do anything feeling"...
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I can't imagine a single other place where these would not apply :(
 
^^am a bit slow :P, but the reason still unfortunately remains the same

i like gforce spin the globe idea, like the movie the last king of scotland,

will try that..lol

hope it doesnt end in indian ocean tough!

anyway i think it would be dubai, talked to my bro there

will go on travel visa to look around and come..
 
This thread's turned out to be pretty good :D

Darthcoder is right. I ask my sister who's studying abroad now how it is to live abroad and she says the facilities, standard of living etc are great but life is just plain hard. It takes a lot to be all by yourself, away from home in a foreign land,living a mechanical life day in and day out. Its great economically but then life's about the OTHER things as well. Imagine spending Eid alone, or not being able to see the firecrackers on Diwali. Simply put, there'll be no one to buy you a tablet, let alone take care of you when you fall sick or something. But then if the economic perks matter more to you, then all of that is worth it :)
 
Shrey said:
This thread's turned out to be pretty good :D
Darthcoder is right. I ask my sister who's studying abroad now how it is to live abroad and she says the facilities, standard of living etc are great but life is just plain hard. It takes a lot to be all by yourself, away from home in a foreign land,living a mechanical life day in and day out. Its great economically but then life's about the OTHER things as well. Imagine spending Eid alone, or not being able to see the firecrackers on Diwali. Simply put, there'll be no one to buy you a tablet, let alone take care of you when you fall sick or something. But then if the economic perks matter more to you, then all of that is worth it :)
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i wont be moving alone, will take my mom with me..cant leave her alone here
if i go to dubai then me,my bro and mommmy dear wil stay togeather
well thats the plan for now..

coolraghav said:
I think south africa would be good option after watching 2012.
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if 2012 doesnt happen then id be in for a soup eh?
 
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