2) I Just want to say there are few people, who take only certain sections of the scripture and highlight it. leaving rest of the major part. balanced view is not presented. Scripture do says dharma,artha,kama,moksha as 4 things in life. but our intellectuals take only the 3rd one and exaggerate it and ignore dharma,moksha..
3)yes u have understood wrongly especially when I have summarized my point in 2 lines. I didnt mean sex should be avoided. you can read these links further for elaborate explanation. do read even if it is lengthy.
http://www.thespiritualscientist.co...problems-2-cultural-problems-sexual-assaults/
http://www.thespiritualscientist.co...t-we-shift-the-blame-away-from-the-criminals/
http://www.thespiritualscientist.com/2013/01/delhi-gang-rape-and-the-modern-shurapanakha/
http://www.thespiritualscientist.co...-spiritual-perspective-on-the-tejpal-scandal/
4) & 5) - when I say hyper sexualized society, it doesnt refer to consensual sex. I am referring to media,magazines, hoardings, internet, of course the choice of dress,ads etc... All activities are initially conceived in the mind,so is rape. And all the said factors do influence our choices consciously or unconsciously. Thats why industries spend millions in ad industry. Rape needs a situation where victim needs to be alone. Even if there are some 2-3 potential rapists in a area, but if there are people around then women will be safe. but if the victim happened to be alone, then there is trouble. Real problem starts with the lusty desires of the mind, which is promoted by media and peers as "COOL and fashionable" thing. Sexual crime or crimes generally is such a thing, initially one shows some restraint. but next time the restraint reduces and over a period of time, it becomes a habit. A person becomes a slave of sexual desires. this is were celibacy training before marriage helps. The person will be in control of sexual desire and not vice versa. as far as consensual sex is concerned, that is a separate discussion. we can take up once we finish up these points.
3)yes u have understood wrongly especially when I have summarized my point in 2 lines. I didnt mean sex should be avoided. you can read these links further for elaborate explanation. do read even if it is lengthy.
http://www.thespiritualscientist.co...problems-2-cultural-problems-sexual-assaults/
http://www.thespiritualscientist.co...t-we-shift-the-blame-away-from-the-criminals/
http://www.thespiritualscientist.com/2013/01/delhi-gang-rape-and-the-modern-shurapanakha/
http://www.thespiritualscientist.co...-spiritual-perspective-on-the-tejpal-scandal/
4) & 5) - when I say hyper sexualized society, it doesnt refer to consensual sex. I am referring to media,magazines, hoardings, internet, of course the choice of dress,ads etc... All activities are initially conceived in the mind,so is rape. And all the said factors do influence our choices consciously or unconsciously. Thats why industries spend millions in ad industry. Rape needs a situation where victim needs to be alone. Even if there are some 2-3 potential rapists in a area, but if there are people around then women will be safe. but if the victim happened to be alone, then there is trouble. Real problem starts with the lusty desires of the mind, which is promoted by media and peers as "COOL and fashionable" thing. Sexual crime or crimes generally is such a thing, initially one shows some restraint. but next time the restraint reduces and over a period of time, it becomes a habit. A person becomes a slave of sexual desires. this is were celibacy training before marriage helps. The person will be in control of sexual desire and not vice versa. as far as consensual sex is concerned, that is a separate discussion. we can take up once we finish up these points.