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adventureguy said:
but in urban areas, it works in opposite also right? many of my friends just had marriage as a goal and many are settle now in abroad with their husbands
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But why is marriage a primary life goal for so many girls? Because society (& media etc) indoctrinates and programs them from childhood that unless they get a good husband with a good job (source of income), their lives are meaningless. If they achieve the above, then they've "made it"...
 
Exactly. If you dont get marry no matter for what sake, you are actually being seen as some sinful idiot or a criminal.
Even if urbanisation is changing the trend, the roots still survive in rural underground minds which is next to impossible to change.
Very basic example:
In a city, even if you get hook into arranged or love marriage, you and parents are purely ok of what your wife wears... shorts, skirts, minis, long gowns, one piece etc. This is something you call as the urban effect which we gracefully adapt to.
Even today's moms are so cool. They wear freely anything. Of course they still dont forget the salwar kameez or saris as that is identity of an Indian culture but not 24x7 anymore. Clothes not necessarily justify ones culture.

But the moment you walk into your village carrying these attire attitude, the so called sanskars and shits come between & you and your parents have to listen for the entire life. Your image gets spoiled permanently.

Hell what does a persons clothes or attire has to do anything with sanskars? At least you arent roaming nude and still flaunting some sanskars.

People dont want to change nor they want to accept changes but only judge with some shitty dirty objects.
 
Julian said:
But why is marriage a primary life goal for so many girls? Because society (& media etc) indoctrinates and programs them from childhood that unless they get a good husband with a good job (source of income), their lives are meaningless. If they achieve the above, then they've "made it"...
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Yup,correct. but as education levels increase, this problem will go down. I know many friends who are 27~30 and are thoroughly focused on their careers and not marriage. sadly this will take time
 
adventureguy said:
Yup,correct. but as education levels increase, this problem will go down. I know many friends who are 27~30 and are thoroughly focused on their careers and not marriage. sadly this will take time
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But why is career a primary life goal for so many people?
 
nRiTeCh said:
Coz they dont want to eat on their papas money for rest of their lives.......
They want to live with their own dignity and make their parents proud as well.
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That's not it. Some people who don't even know you just drop by to ask like demanding what you're doing. It's ridiculous. I mean just because you can't eat food without doing a job doesn't mean it's same for everyone else. Some ppl hide in their homes for years after years due to shame and when they realize it's too late and they try to start fresh, they still get bothered by the same questions
 
Zaibatsu said:
That's not it. Some people who don't even know you just drop by to ask like demanding what you're doing. It's ridiculous. I mean just because you can't eat food without doing a job doesn't mean it's same for everyone else. Some ppl hide in their homes for years after years due to shame and when they realize it's too late and they try to start fresh, they still get bothered by the same questions
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That is why it is always better to act rather waiting or idling for no reasons. One stage comes where you own life starts biting you and you realize its too late. Then even if you think to start something new its just for the sake of formality as you need to survive with no thrill or interest. So the mantra is to wake up before its too late.
 
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