What is the best way to get it shipped to you when the seller is in a different city, any tips on packing and courier recommendations?
I have sold one here, an year back and the buyer was happy with the packing. So, my 2 cents:
1. make sure to use a monitor box with that thermocol cuttings. Doesn't have to be the box of the monitor, can be some other (bigger) monitor's box also. This will ensure place for all the wires, stand etc, within the box
2. make sure to stuff bubble wraps on top and bottom side of the box (inside), mainly the side where your monitor screen is present. More chances of courier guys placing a heavy box on top of this during transit.
3. Use lots of carton-box-tapes, the wide-brown-colour one, not the transparent one. Those brown ones are pretty strong and doesn't give up that easily. Cover your box completely with that brown tape.
4. Make sure to secure your address paper, if you're sticking one. Cover that with the transparent cello-tapes completely to prevent it from tearing. Mostly these days the delivery happens via a bar-code scan. but, just in case.
5. See if you can use an insured-courier.