iGo said:
Although I understand your reasoning for defense... I personally favor avoiding confrontation at all cost, unless I have to resort to self-defense. The thing about fighting is that it never stops at one fight. Say, I fought a guy and came out on top... sadly, tomorrow he will come back with more people and beat the crap out of me. I can't let it slide cause now it's no more just conflict, it's now my pride on the line. So it goes on and on.
Exactly, if this happens to be the route you commute on, they pick the time & place
One has to be able to think a few steps ahead.
iGo said:
Off-course I'm not saying that one shouldn't learn martial arts, rather, I would personally pick-up something that gives me solid defense. Couple of offensive moves when it's REALLY requires, but I would prefer defending myself better and get out of the situation.
Absolutely. Thing is ppl dont pick up martial arts for self-defense, they do it as a sport to become good at and perhaps take part in competitions. Self-defense is merely a side benefit and NOT the main motivation. With this frame of mind you would work harder and stay motivated longer. Competitive fights are worth getting into because they follow rules, are refereed, have a clear reward as well as closure compared to open-anything-goes street fights of uncertain outcome and no one watching your back.
Tho a self-defense class for starters would be general enough to give a rough grounding. It would not take too long and would mostly be defensive in nature for a few months at best. It's main focus would be on what PM wanted not on learning how to be offensive. I think a good class should also include evasive tactics as avoiding a fight is better than defending against one.
After that you could choose to specialise in a sport of your choice.
iGo said:
According to him, you need to use more head in Taekwondo than just physical strength. If you're smart person, you'd use your opponent's strength against him rather than going all-out attacking.
All sports are like this, head matters 90% the rest is physical.
Unless one is a bouncer, cop or someone that intentionally puts themselves in harms way, i bet 9 times out of 10 its possible to get away without any fight at all. In that sense learning how to evade a fight is more valuable than being able to actually fight. Broadly speaking its using wits & psychology to avoid getting into a fight in the first place. Point is to cut down on the lousy 50-50. So fewer fights is better in this case.
The friend i mentioned earlier is fairly big, these types of ppl get challenged more because someone wants to prove to himself that he can take them on. So most of the times they avoid the fights with cunning & humour and only ever get into ones they have no choice about. Humour is much better than cunning, if you can crack jokes when your life's at stake it says a lot about one's state of mind.
You are deciding who to fight rather than being forced into it. Its taking control away from the attacker. Can someone force you to fight if you are unwilling ?
What's really strange with OP's request is he mentions 'agressive' ppl. I did not take this to mean muggers, ie they want your ipod or cash, but basically ppl that are out to beat you up -- ie rowdies with records who have nothing to lose !!
Avoiding muggers is not too hard, stay out of dodgy areas, avoid unecessary eye contact, don't dress too conspicuously, being aware of your surroundings, in short being street smart.
Pepper spray, ever consider that ?..not just for women, cops in the US also make use of it. And finally there is RUNNING, how fast can you run and how far. He who fights and runs away lives to fight another day.
sohail99 said:
If you are trained well enough, disarming a person with a knife/gun(@close range) is a cakewalk!
Oh yeah, so how about with two persons ?
2-3 is a safe grouping for thugs to be in, acts as a force multiplier, the 2-3 together is more than the sum of the indivdual parts. Even if you are a kung-fu master they will still have good chances to cut you. You might have KO'd them but you have 2 hrs to get help or you are finished, in this sense its easier sometimes to survive being shot than stabbed. We are not in the west, how long is the response time for emergency services ?
Unless you know WHO & WHAT you are up against its not worth getting into a fight and even still not worth it after.