Just had a small lunch table debate with two of my colleagues - about banning crackers. Both are young parents and surprisingly they both were trying to justify the whole thing.
(they) Argument : Its just for enjoyment.
(me) Counter : So does drinking and driving - at least the guy who's driving is enjoying. Both are time bombs.
A : It's a festival of light.
C : Exactly. So why bring the sound, smokes, pollution, global warming.........
A : Didn't you burn crackers when you were kid?
C : I wasn't aware about after effects. Now I am educated enough. Aren't you?
A : You cannot change everybody.
C : I am not aiming for everybody. I just wanted to convey to you two and seems I failed miserably.
A : We understand it creates air pollution. And so does vehicles and factories. Why not shut down all?
C : Because as a single person, least I can do is stop using crackers. (And convince others, well, at least I am trying). Besides "many" of those factories/vehicles are necessities for survival while crackers are just for 'enjoyment'. We can enjoy differently - hanging with friends/family, having good food, watching a good movie.
A : I know about the pollution and all. But if my kid sees others and asks for some how can I refuse my kid on a diwaali eve?
C : <blank>
A : Say govt bans the crackers. What will happen to those workers working on such factories? They don't have any other skills, how would they survive?
C : <I don't know how to react to that.>
(I said that's the worst logic ever, and now he's offended with me)
A : Say govt bans the crackers. What will happen to those workers working on such factories? They don't have any other skills, how would they survive?
C : <I don't know how to react to that.>
its okay to have strong opinions about certain things (fireworks in this case) and follow the principles and feel good about making the world a better place (dopamine); but I dont agree with people who want to shame others for not following those principles.
Well, I think it is also perfectly alright to call out and shame 0thers when its about things that affect not just themselves, but others as well. Its just like drunken driving or smoking. Most people don't give a damn about things that damage only the person doing them. Let people drink alcohol till their liver rots.. Nobody needs to give a damn about it. But as soon as they get on the road behind a wheel in their drunken state it becomes everybody's problem.
I used to know people who dreaded Diwali season. Year after year, they used to come close to their deaths for no fault of theirs.