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Hey Udit,

Nice writeup Dude. There is so much positivity in ur writing. Most of the guys here have said what i also wanted to say. U r the champion Dude. The only difference between champions and normal people is champions last 2 sec. longer. And that 2 sec. is enough to defeat the enemy. ;)

Oh and enjoy ur bed rest, the day u get well u will miss ur bed. :( And hey getting a girl now a days is equally difficult. Too much competition out there.

Hold on tight and ENJOY BUDDY coz u will be getting well soon and then u will get married soon, and u will not get time for posting in TE or gaming either.

Udit the Champion. :)
 
Hi Udit

Stumbled upon this post a couple of days back, and didn't know what to say. Maybe I was embarassed, maybe a bit scared, and I felt very, very stupid.

A couple of weeks back I was facing a real tough situation at work, and I raised a huge hue and cry about it. The whole damn world was running around trying to meet my every command, and ensuring that the presentation happened on time. After I finished I went back to my table, feeling pretty pleased that I had met my targets.

After reading your PMs and this post + your story, I realise that the people you think are 'normal' (like me) are actually the abnormal ones. We magnify our own problems and issues and self-importance so much, when what we face and go through in real life is a pittance compared to what you go through in just a few hours.

Nay, a pittance is too much to call it.

My friend, you have a gift. That gift is the most precious of all mankind. When we speak to you, interact with you, and read your posts, we forget for those moments all our troubles and sorrows - because yours is much bigger than ours, and yet you choose to share, to let us be a part of them, and see into the courage, determination and fortitude you face them with. And for that time, I think about this little kid who's making me understand that my problems are really, in the grand scheme of things, quite insignificant.

And still you manage to smile. I can see your smiles in the words you write. The memories of the pain, the struggle, and also the good times. It takes extraordinary courage to write about the pain you faced. It may take even more to write about the good times, the memories, and the love and affection you have managed to receive.

On your sadness about girls - Take it from someone much, much older - girls aren't worth the trouble. Sex, however, may be, but don't worry - it's overrated too, unless it's with someone you love very much - or someone who's really good at it ;)

On games - Why don't you learn chess? I could be a sparring partner, and we can play on the 'net, no board is required except for you to check your moves. Just learn the basic moves, some strategy and the notation. In a few months you could be a grandmaster! Betcha you'll be whipping my butt in a few weeks, and will go hunting for more experienced players.

You hang in there, and don't lose your guts. We love you and you are going to get through this. Don't worry about a thing!
 
people wanna share a big secret :)

actually I just need three things from a lots of Love is the first priority :D

the other two I can't mention but you guys must be knowing them ;)

they are just too embarrassing to mention :blushing:
 
sangram said:
Hi Udit

Stumbled upon this post a couple of days back, and didn't know what to say. Maybe I was embarassed, maybe a bit scared, and I felt very, very stupid.

A couple of weeks back I was facing a real tough situation at work, and I raised a huge hue and cry about it. The whole damn world was running around trying to meet my every command, and ensuring that the presentation happened on time. After I finished I went back to my table, feeling pretty pleased that I had met my targets.

After reading your PMs and this post + your story, I realise that the people you think are 'normal' (like me) are actually the abnormal ones. We magnify our own problems and issues and self-importance so much, when what we face and go through in real life is a pittance compared to what you go through in just a few hours.

Nay, a pittance is too much to call it.

My friend, you have a gift. That gift is the most precious of all mankind. When we speak to you, interact with you, and read your posts, we forget for those moments all our troubles and sorrows - because yours is much bigger than ours, and yet you choose to share, to let us be a part of them, and see into the courage, determination and fortitude you face them with. And for that time, I think about this little kid who's making me understand that my problems are really, in the grand scheme of things, quite insignificant.

And still you manage to smile. I can see your smiles in the words you write. The memories of the pain, the struggle, and also the good times. It takes extraordinary courage to write about the pain you faced. It may take even more to write about the good times, the memories, and the love and affection you have managed to receive.

On your sadness about girls - Take it from someone much, much older - girls aren't worth the trouble. Sex, however, may be, but don't worry - it's overrated too, unless it's with someone you love very much - or someone who's really good at it ;)

On games - Why don't you learn chess? I could be a sparring partner, and we can play on the 'net, no board is required except for you to check your moves. Just learn the basic moves, some strategy and the notation. In a few months you could be a grandmaster! Betcha you'll be whipping my butt in a few weeks, and will go hunting for more experienced players.

You hang in there, and don't lose your guts. We love you and you are going to get through this. Don't worry about a thing!
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Well said mate.
 
@ udit

Ever since i joined TE, I've been quite amazed by you, you are one of those elements that really define what TE is all about, this community really is what it is because of people like you. Quite unknowingly you inspire many , and i can count myself as one. Jus hang on and keep writing :)

u should actually be proud of urself, because you know stuff that people with physical privileges don't, that is something that sets u apart.

You quite simply rock ... keep rockin :)
 
Udit, we'r waitin for your 4th phase of life, in which you get cured and achieve everything you wanted. :)

Don't even think of anything else! ... You have so much knowledge about comps,

then why get depressed?? Take life as it comes n' don't think negative.. :)



We are all there with you,always! :)
 
Udit said:
people wanna share a big secret :)

actually I just need three things from a lots of Love is the first priority :D

the other two I can't mention but you guys must be knowing them ;)

they are just too embarrassing to mention :blushing:
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Ok, call me dumb - what ARE those other two things? I'm assuming at least one of them is a quick romp in the hay with some chick - what is the second one? I'm really curious now.

Don't worry, when you become my age and your teeth start falling out, you won't be embarassed by anything, so it's good to start now.

So, tell, tell, what is that second thing?
 
sangram said:
Ok, call me dumb - what ARE those other two things? I'm assuming at least one of them is a quick romp in the hay with some chick - what is the second one? I'm really curious now.

Don't worry, when you become my age and your teeth start falling out, you won't be embarassed by anything, so it's good to start now.

So, tell, tell, what is that second thing?
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first one you got right

second on is quick hand/blow job :P

was it that hard to guess?
 
Very specific requirements. U have been to middle far east na? Never used their menu cards? ROFL. :tongue: :cool2:
 
yeah udit..lolz ..tht was hard to guessed..even i was a bit curious..and dont worry..both da things u said are pretty normal .and on every guys wish list..so there's nothing to get embarrassed about.. unless there's a gal checkin out the thread lolz ..he heh e...
 
Don't worry ya, once you get no.2, no 3 will also be there, before or after. All you have to do is ask her. :D :LOL:

It actually was very, very difficult. Hard, I don't know - what did she say? :LOL:
 
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ROFL! Udit!,LMAO! :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

LOL, coz maybe I'm 14yrs old! :ashamed:
 
Please treat each one of my words very seriously. I am assuming that you have tried whatever you could and now what I am telling you is your last option and your only hope at present, so you will do exactly as is being told to you without considering anything foolish or contrary to your beliefs or against the town logician/doctors belief.

Believe me, there is a great chance that you can be cured, be alright, live. Nothing may happen to you. I don't know if you believe in God, but if you do then that may make things simpler. God's avatar or saints exist in this world to grace people and save them for sorrow, diseases, illness and to do other miracles for their well being. The only thing is that today there are many many frauds who just cheat people and actually aren't saints. But if you find a true Guru, you can accomplish your mission in life.

I think it is time that you follow the spiritual path. You should go to my Guru Ji in Sirsa, Haryana. He will help you, he may cure/treat you as it is or may ask you to take his Gurmantra. Whatever he says and if you do, you may be cured totally. The conditions of taking the Gurmantra are eating no egg or non-veg, drinking no alcohol or other drug or adictive stuff, having no sort of physical relationship with other than your wife. For a person like you he may just tell you that you will be treated/cured because of your immense desire for it, or you may even need to meditate 12hrs a day. But you can surely be cured. In a situation like this, you have no other choice, you know that already. He has done many many miracles but will never show them to you in the form of miracles, he has indeed cured people of diseases like cancer.

If you have ever seen Mano Ya Na Mano, there exist many scientific and spiritual scientific events and things in this world which are beyond the scope of modern science. There are miracles and other things which are like miracles to most of us but actually nothing but ancient knowledge. If you don't believe them, go to the city, ask the people and see for yourself, I am sure you will realize. There is no harm, you have no other choice, you loose nothing by simply trying out.

Also, of the thing of your next life, there is a life after death and many times of great misery and for centuries if not milleniums, only sorrow is not bearable then. I don't want to scare you but for your wellbeing so that you take the Gurumantra and are able to help yourself. There is rebirth for sure, but in most cases you need to go through around 80lac organisms I guess to finally reach the human form once again and then who knows what you may be in that life. Also, some forms like certain tree(s) may have a life expectancy of 30000 yrs, imagine. Then there are examples of a in crores of getting human birth after a previous human birth when there is great desire for God(I think).

You have the time, you can save yourself, you can accomplish the final mission, I think you should what I said, you loose nothing and there aren't many alternatives that you can choose from.
 
the thread was lovely, nice to see so many people making udit smile i remeber my chats with udit when i heard of his condition!

Udit you have a great spirit! A spirit of a fighter, I doubt i would be able to fight as much as you have! God Bless you!

May you get the strength to overcome your disease!
 
@illusion

Whats the Guruji's name. Does he have an Ashram? How did you first get in touch with him?
 
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