Discuss: Gals n guys can never remain as close friends?

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NinByChoice

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can be and prolly there are many. otherwise most of us would be having more than 1 spouse. rofl. what a typical question - BlueD is a true reflection of the indian society.

raghu.

OT - can u ppl see my sig? im not able to see mine.
 
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Ein

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Sandy said:
hehe like asking tiger not to eat a meat:p
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Lemme guess ... u saw Madagascar last nite ??
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i know it's possible... hav many gal frnds, (NOT gf s) sm of them quite close.
 
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Count_Down

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why not....I am committed to one, still have really close women friends,,,,,
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Same here.

However, I have a slightly different take on friendship. It appears to me that, in longer term, friendship between men and between men and women are more stable than those between women. This is purely from observation and my experience. May be I am worng, may be it is a sampling problem!!!
 
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delhiboy1000

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maybe for a day or two LOL
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:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

@desert:
I Said I Loved You And You Thought It Was True, But Man Guess What ?! You Got Played Too !!
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Is this line from a movie or something..??

& as to d answer to BD's ques.. Well, i wud say no too..
Plainly & simply: Any hetero relationship is basically just abt 2 grt friends of d oppsite sex..
 
Grease Monk

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From http://www.intellectualwhores.com/

IF A MAN FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE YOU CANNOT BE FRIENDS

Many women want to argue this point and say things like " I have lots of guy friends." Maybe. There are exactly 3 cases Intellectual Whores has identified whereby a guy and a girl can be friends:

1. The guy is gay

2. The guy does not find you attractive.

3. The guy already has a woman much higher than you on the ladder

Even Nietzsche knew this. Most guys know this intuitively. Most girls doubt. I have a challenge for all of you girls who still doubt. Pick a guy who does not meet any of the criterion on the above list that you think is your friend. Then ask yourself this question: If you were both alone at his place one night, and you excused yourself to the bathroom and came out naked and asked him to have sex with you would he:

1. Tell you he doesn't want to risk the beautiful friendship you have created with messy physical entanglements.

2. Comply

Remember this only works if you are honest with yourself. Number one is of course something that guys hear all the time. Intellectual Whores refers to it as the Kiss of Death. It is more likely that he will jump you eagerly.
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For an explanation of ladder theory, visit the site.
 
renegade

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Count_Down said:
Same here.

However, I have a slightly different take on friendship. It appears to me that, in longer term, friendship between men and between men and women are more stable than those between women. This is purely from observation and my experience. May be I am worng, may be it is a sampling problem!!!
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Oh no it aint a sampling problem. This is very true. In best cases the long term group is limited to just 2-3 gals.
 
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