Tailscale, I believe, is secure enough, as you'll need tailscale account to br logged in at both ends.Thanks for your suggestions regarding tailscale. Installed tailscale on my asus mini, laptop and s23 ultra. Able to do RDP while the laptop was connected to jio personal hotspot and the asus mini was in the jio fiber network. Now to look further into security settings on making the RDP secure.
Opening ports to the internet and logging in via microsoft account directly is less secure.