How to get rid of this shyness? ( sort of depressed)

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I am limiting myself to the events and this thread only. I need you guys help, believe it or not I am kind of heading towards depression. Please don't make fun of me as I am damn serious.

I have lost interest in gaming, PC and nearly everything else. You can also check out my blog if you want akshaytalwar.blogspot.com to know how I am feeling these days.

I want you guys to help me out. Or atleast give me some consolation. I am just too shy to say hello to her, happy birthday to her, or to gift her something etc. She already knows that I like her, but what she doesn't know is that this is much more than mere liking. She has deleted me from orkut, blocked me. I won't tell you her name as that she won't like. But what I need help from you guys is to give me small tips to overcome my shyness, forget about my story, I am hopeless...

But atleast help me overcome my shyness, I have tried small things myself, so it would be great if you could slowly help me get rid of this stupid shyness of mine. I am shy to the extent of being vary of talking to girls(no I am not gay) or even enter our party room during a party.

@mods, please don't ban this id. I am not going to be present in the main sections of the forum and I am in no mood for any joke. I request you to kindly delete posts which are just for making fun of me. Don't know what to say, mere kya hoga:ashamed:

Akshay Talwar
 
Welcome back techb0i..

Well, I was somewhat like that in the 9th Std.

I just couldnt sum up enough Courage to go ask out a girl. (Btw, i didnt till date).. just because I though I wasnt good enough for her.

After that, I kinda got over her. I fell for another girl, Who I asked out, thinging "What the heck, if she says no? Whos gonna know?"

Yes, my main fear was that people would make fun of me, if she blows me off.

Maybe its the same with you.

Ask yourself if you want to ask out that girl? And are willing to put your "rep" so to speak, on the line for it. =X... This is what i though to myself in School, and chickened out, of asking her out.

To my dismay, My frnd asked that girl, If she would have said yes, and she said Yes she would have :|.

Anyways, besides the point, dont get stuck up over 1 girl.

There will be 100's of others, who you will like. So if you dont have the courage of ask this girl out, or even talk to her, 4get about it. Get over her.

Dont get discouraged.

Id recommend you wait till college b4 you start dating btw... Lol..
 
Adi thanks for the long thread. But this is not my situation. She already has a BF so asking is out of question. I just want to be her friend, that would od for me.

As for liking, I have had many crushes in the past, this is not a crush. I genuinely care forher. I wouldn't ever and never did leave gaming and the PC for anybody, I wouldn't even mind selling off my PC for her, I would have her as a friend rather than a check of 10B$(I know this sounds too much) but I would rather have her friendship than any body else to be my GF. Jo har ek paisa PC par dlata tha aaj woh pocket money gifting ke liye bacha ta hai, I can't tell in words how important she is,just her friendship is infinite for me.
 
Kya kahun. I changed for the feeling. in so many small ways that she may never know, but just as a token of respect/appreciation to life/God/that feeling.

The feeling was and still is WONDERFUL, but I can't live so far away.

To tell you guys one thing, I didn't like the word 'her' and maybe even she. Now for some reason I like and even respect these words.
 
she is everything, all I care is her happiness. so it is a request not to say anything wrong or anything against her.

to express myself a lil more, the once laughing all time chap now is nothing, can't make anybody laugh anymore. ask hotstuff aka srajan how it is to be with me these days.
 
@akshit, you won't understand all this like i couldn't understand adi back then.

and my request is that you guys temme ways to atleast overcome my shyness if nothing else.
 
akshit please don't make meaningless comments. i am really serious. i have lost just about everything, and i don't want to be troubled more. keeping the thread back to topic, reply guys!
 
TE meet to mere ko bhi chaiya. But I won't frag. And please don't mention to her casually as in 'girls', she is very very very very very special. I can't forget her. Anyway, any tips to overcome my shyness are welcome.

Love is like bitter chocolate, it may be more bitter than a medicine yet you will still eat it.

As for the studying part, initially it helped me to study rather than not study.
 
Gaming was how I used to beat the blues when I was in your state :P You seem to have closed that door for yoself

But seriously, give yoself some time away from her (how long depends from person to person) and you will feel better soon..
 
Yaar I don't want to be away from her, but I hardly have a choice I can't talk to her, maybe ever:(
Anyway, I will feel a lil better if I loose my shyness and am not shy enouf to just talk to people.

I can't find anyway to make her realize or even make any one of you realize how important she is.:huh: :( :ashamed:
 
Please don't make fun of me, this is not the time to do so. And this is not my come back to TE, I may or may not ever come back as TB.

I need somebody for help, somebody and I consider you guys as my friends. If anything similar has happened to you, you will understand else there is no point. I can't make you understand how I am feeling.

@Aces, where can I get your avatar, without the social part that is?
 
Dude get a life.... women come and women go... you just gotta get on with life. Just forget about her... its hard but its the only way :P.
 
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