^^this shows ... power corrupts, be it men or women !
They always forget, "With great power, comes great responsibility" !
They always forget, "With great power, comes great responsibility" !
How did you conclude that she abused the laws? Did she tell lies about what he said or how he behaved? I think the police heard both sides and she didn't tell anything more than his version of the story. She didn't try to implicate him falsely by telling lies or creating bogus evidence.
Secondly, how exactly did you conclude that she was not a victim or potential victim of harassment? Most sexual harassment in our country starts out in the exact same manner as it did in this case. A boy asks a girl to go out with him, be his girl friend or marry him. If the girl responds in the negative, he would begin to stalk her and repeat it again. Inaction from the girl increases their boldness and and in some cases the harassment may turn physical and violent.
She took action because she was offended by his bold advances and saw it as source for a potential trouble. He was the one who made the advances and what did he loose from it? some embarrassment and a day in prison and a gained a well deserved lesson . What could the girl have lost from inaction? Potential future harassment and violence or even death looking at how things are in our country. From her perspective, it was safe to take action and nip the bud early than be sorry later.
We are not in a country where women are yet ready to take such advances casually and where men are mature enough to take refusals in a good natured manner. Women are still treated as objects by men and refusals are not taken lightly.
Maybe this guy indeed bore no ill intentions, but how was the girl to know his real intentions? She simply reacted the best way she could, i.e. alerting the people around her.
He many have got into a lot of trouble because of it, but at the end of the day, his actions were the reason for the trouble he go into. In a country where the immaturity of men has led to one too many crimes against women simply for refusal of their advances, did he even think for one moment whether this was the best way that he could have approached a girl that he was interested in without being seen as any other potential harasser. He should have understood the psyche of this country and its people and the environment that he is living in before deciding to make such advances. His ignorance or disregard for this led him into this trouble.
And yeah, if you really think that this is abuse of the laws, then sorry, you haven't seen what abuse of the law by women looks like. I am staunchly against abuse of laws made to protect the interests of women, but this is definitely not one of them. She merely took preventive steps to protect her interests by strongly and appropriately reacting to the guys unwanted advances.
Innocent until proven guilty .. I think we still in society that believes that ..
And was this supposed to be case of preventive arrest .. because a guy 'might' stalk her .. might harass her in the future..
This was a total misuse of extra legal protection give to protect women..
There you go: There were not any advances here, it was just asking out one time, not in the multiples.
If he had persisted even after she refused, and harassed her, then even I would side with her.
If I am right, there was no intent to create bogus evidence to book him in a false case. He was detained based on the evidence given by the girl and this guy. There was nothing to prove. The girl told what he did and he agreed to doing what she claimed he did. If he was detained illegally, it was done by the police of their own accord, not because of the girl. The girl has every right to seek protection when she feels threatened. Innocent until proven guilty means that a person is considered innocent by the law and cannot be punished for a crime till the charges are proven. It does not mean that the girl can approach the police only after she has been raped or some other violence committed against her. Preventive detainment is also pretty much legal and quite often exercised when there is need for it.
Looking at it now, I hardly think that a guy who can write an intelligent blog post from the first-person perspective with such good English can become as vile as that.We can all just assume that he would be a future rapist, acid-thrower and murderer
yes people who have good grasp of english , can never be the bad guyLooking at it now, I hardly think that a guy who can write an intelligent blog post from the first-person perspective with such good English can become as vile as that.
What I don't understand is the fact that why the police is always in the wrong side of the situation in India. I mean, there are number of cases where the police actually refuse to file FIR for real rape & assault cases and sometimes even try to save the guilty. In this case the police reacted swiftly in putting behind the bars an innocent person (if you believe his version of the story). So do the police actually enjoy victimising innocent people or is it plain negligence ?
Looking at it now, I hardly think that a guy who can write an intelligent blog post from the first-person perspective with such good English can become as vile as that.
Vile .. wow .. this is exactly the kind of reprecussion we are talking about .. Men can be termed as vile for approaching women
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Vile .. wow .. this is exactly the kind of reprecussion we are talking about .. Men can be termed as vile for approaching women
We can all just assume that he would be a future rapist, acid-thrower and murderer
Well, in the entire history of our country women have always been subjected to harassment & assault. Now the tables have turned. So there will be plenty of news of men being harassed by women. Prepare yourself for that. I somehow, believe that this is required.
What I don't understand is the fact that why the police is always in the wrong side of the situation in India. I mean, there are number of cases where the police actually refuse to file FIR for real rape & assault cases and sometimes even try to save the guilty. In this case the police reacted swiftly in putting behind the bars an innocent person (if you believe his version of the story). So do the police actually enjoy victimising innocent people or is it plain negligence ?
Hey, isn't it a fact that educated people are far more civilized?yes people who have good grasp of english , can never be the bad guy
Hey, isn't it a fact that educated people are far more civilized?
Me: Stop
She: Yes?
Me: We should get together this weekend.
Her: Why?
Me: We'll have fun. Maybe get a cup of coffee or something!
Her: Get lost...