See, if a person is smoker you can immediately point it out.
Spending time with smoker can be bad for your health too with passive smoking.
They can do damage to other people as well as themself.
As far as fat people are concerned, yes they are doing damage to their body. But mind you damage done by fat is much slower than the damage done by smoking. And they dont hurt other people in any way.
I have to tolerate smokers and heavy drinkers in professional life. And I do handle them. But i dont let them be part of my personal life.
Thats my choice not someone else's.
Person might be good and honest. but if he has any of these 2 addictions i will stay clear of him in personal life.
You are judged by your friends and company. And thats the fact of the society. Not everyone is like me and dont judge people.
My parents will certainly not like me hanging out with a smoker. And i dont blame them for that.
Its as simple as that.
If you are brought up in an environment where there was strict no smoking and drinking in family, even during social events, you are brought up mentally trained to look away from all those things.
Its the way i think and i certainly wont like to be friends with smoker. As simple as that. I dont like people who smoke. Nothing you say is gona change that
I have made a choice. Smokers are striked out from my personal life. If that means i dont interact with some people on personal level and loose something, thats fine with me. I will live with that.